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The Suburbs: Festivals and why I think I’m no longer young or cool

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I was driving to work (I no longer take the train) and noticed a sign about the weekly farmer’s market in our town. I said to myself, “Ohhhh, a farmer’s market! We love going to those.” A little while later I reached the city and noticed that setup for Lollapalooza was underway. My route to work goes through Lake Shore Drive and down one of the streets that will be closed for Lolla, so it added a few minutes to my commute. I was pissed. And then I got even more pissed because I was pissed. What the hell happened to me that I’m more excited about a farmer’s market than Lollapalooza?

Now, I generally don’t like crowds (or people, for that matter) but I loved going to concerts and festivals. Three straight years we’ve had press passes for Lolla and I went two out of the three years. I would be excited for months leading up to the festival. I told everyone to the point of bragging. This year when we discussed who was covering what festival I didn’t even throw my hat in the ring. All I could think was, “Well – it’s probably going to be pretty hot out. And we probably have stuff to do around the house.” Now, granted. We do have a lot of stuff to do for the wedding and we do have a lot of stuff to do for the house – but I didn’t even want to go to the festival. I’d rather be buying corn at the farmer’s market.

I’m 26, so am I just getting too old to hit up concerts all of the time? Am I just burnt out from going to concerts and festivals since I did it a ton a few years ago? It’s not like it’s just festivals, either. Beth and I talk about going to concerts and end up coming to the conclusion that we just don’t want to go. I mean, it’s just so much work to get to the Metro.

What the hell has happened to me? Has anyone else ever went through this? I’ll hang up and listen for your answer.

  • Pinto and the Bean

    Maybe you’re just going through a phase? But also, Lollapalooza this year is nothing great to look forward to. It seems they were lazy or desperate this year putting it together. In any case, you’ll probably be back and excited about shows again in time

  • Pinto and the Bean

    Maybe you’re just going through a phase? But also, Lollapalooza this year is nothing great to look forward to. It seems they were lazy or desperate this year putting it together. In any case, you’ll probably be back and excited about shows again in time

  • MB

    I’m 25 and attended my first concert nine years ago. I’ve noticed that the average ages of people at most of these shows hasn’t changed much. I’ve just gone from being among the youngest to being among the oldest (this seems to be true for pretty much any indie or punk band I see more than once). As I’ve aged, I just find that young people and the way they act at concerts has shifted from being the norm to being annoying. I still love music enough to go to a shows at least once a month but I find myself becoming more and more apprehensive about the crowds. I think I’m just outgrowing the concert “scene” which sucks because I still want to see live music.

  • Anonymous

    Were you ever cool?